Article: The “Essence” of Animal Health
Keeping Your Pet Informed I faced my recent move with some trepidation. My cat Smoochie was not always the trusting individual he is today. I found him at the SPCA, victim to an apartment with a no-cats policy. He was 7 1/2 years old. It took him two years to become the confident, outgoing personality that rivals that of most humans I encounter. All too often, our pets are upset by both minor and major occurrences in their lives. It takes only a little imagination to understand what they must feel with little control over the events in their lives, particularly if they occurred with no prior warning. This lack of power is a common condition of our pets' lives. Any emotional distress incurred with sudden moves, changes in the family structure, or the routine largely depends on the individual animal's ability to cope. There are, however, ways in which we can help. It is important to remember that various animals are quite different in the way they manage change. Cats react more to changes in their environment, including the addition of new animals, moving, or a decrease in the size of their territory. Their safe ‘zone' is relative to where they live. When they are moved they leave this safe zone behind and must attempt to re-create it in the new location. In contrast, a dog's environment tends to be relative to the location of their ‘person'. They often experience separation anxiety, brought on by any parting. Generally, any distress of moving is eliminated if their person is present. However, there are always exceptions to these differences. Many of us have met a dog who would much rather be a cat or a cat who would love to be chasing sticks all day! Just as clear communication is crucial between human beings, it is necessary to develop a common language with your animal. Many understand at least some speech, and all understand thoughts, imagery, and body language. It may take time and patience to develop the best language for you and your pet, but you'll find it is well worth the groundwork. Breathe deeply, clear your mind and relay your message to your pet. In order to avoid confusion, make sure that your words are consistent with your thoughts. While communicating a message watch for a reaction from your pet, some sign of recognition. It is even possible to ask them for a certain action to confirm they have understood your message. I often ask my animal clients to blink for ‘yes'. Your pet will appreciate all of your attempts at communication; and you will be amazed at how in tune your pet is with your thoughts and words! The importance of informing your pet about the changes in his/her life cannot be over-emphasized. Both you and your pet will be spared much emotional distress. Generally, if I am going to be away for several days I picture myself leaving and then I imagine each day and night until I return home. This way, the pet will not be confused by numbers, as they live their days by light and dark. Before our recent move, I communicated the nature of the change several times to Smoochie through speech and visual imagery. Within two days, he was out from under the furniture, had explored the house and was outside laying claim to the garden. Unlike past moving experiences, my Smoochie has adjusted very well to our new space and is back to being one of the friendliest felines I know. Work with your pets to find the best way to let them know about any changes in their lives. They have a right to know!
SIDEBAR The events that should, in all cases, be communicated to your pet are these. • Moving to a new apartment, house, or property. • The addition of a new animal or human to the family. • The loss of an animal or human from the family. • Any substantial change in circumstances in the household, including longer hours at work or conflict. Any family vacation or planned absence where the pet will be left at home (or brought along).
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